“Lighten up on yourself. No one is perfect. Gently accept your humanness.” –Deborah Day
What was the first thing on your mind when you woke up this morning? For many people, the same thoughts cross their minds each day. Multiple studies have been conducted to learn more about what thoughts generally go through our minds first thing in the morning. It has been revealed that a large majority of individuals think about their phones, money and work, significant others, health, to do lists and food (Sleep Junkie, 2017). Of the items listed, it was discovered that a majority of men and women woke up thinking about money and work the most (Sleep Junkie, 2017).
American author and presidential speechwriter James Humes once said “the art of communication is the language of leadership” (Paymar, 2012, para. 7). While a 2014 Gallup survey identified texting as the most dominant form of communication for Americans under age 50 (Newport, 2014, para. 1), verbal communication – and specifically listening – may be one of the most underrated and underutilized tools leaders can use to build a more engaged workforce.
Often, a simple thought progresses from a thought or saying to an adage and then to be almost an axiom that is universally accepted as true. Such is the case with the thought that one should “work smarter, not harder”.
Redefining the Road to Leadership with the Beatitudes
Several years ago I started my own personal quest to deal with life’s hurts, hang-ups and habits. After a while, this quest turned into more of a necessity to be able to thrive in this every changing world. I decided to join a group at my church. This group went through the book Life’s Healing Choices by John Baker. “The fact is that many of us are a mess. We’re scattered all over the living room floor, with no one to put us together and no idea where to begin the process of healing” (p. 1).
As you may know, leadership is simply the ability to attain followers. Leaders throughout history commonly possess certain traits and characteristics in order to create an environment where followers buy into the practices and ideas of their leadership. The uniqueness of the leader’s attributes causes them to emerge into this role. But what are these specific attributes and how can emerging leaders develop their skills?
“But we have this treasure in earthen vessels that the excellence of the power may be of God and not of us. We are hard-pressed on every side, yet not crushed; we are perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed.” (2 Corinthians 4:7-9)
Topics: ethical leadership
Traditional Christian values - those accepted principles and standards of behavior that America was founded on - have eroded to the point where they have become irrelevant in today's society. As one thinks about the future of this country, individuals (and society collectively) must begin to wonder what America will look like in 20 or 30 years if things continue as they are. Not that long ago, religion and family created universal values and norms (Kuczmarski and Kuczmarski, 1995). However, in America today there is a prevailing secular worldview that dominates society and as a result, traditional values based on Biblical foundations and Christian principles have been and continue to be under constant attack. From those advocating abortion rights and homosexuality to infidelity in marriage and blatant disrespect for those in authority, the values that the United States of America was founded on appear to be dying a quick death. With these thoughts in mind, leaders throughout American business, government, and the church must seek to understand where the values this country was founded on had their origins so today’s generation can, as it states in Deuteronomy 4:9, "teach them to our children and our grandchildren."
As consumers Americans have come to expect an incredible variety of choices… And we’ve got them. Every day we are faced with increasing numbers of choices:
- Which of the thousands of cable channels do you watch?
- How do you like your coffee? What drive-through do you get it from?
- Do you cook for yourself or choose to become a valued customer at Mighty Taco
Then there are the more involved decisions like who we add as ‘friends’ on Facebook or follow on Twitter and the weighted decisions we make that have budget implications.